New Thoughts (01/28/13-01/30/13)
Looking at the notes I have taken in preparation here, and at those things which I have considered for comment here, I find I must take care to heed my primary caution, “Don’t get caught up in technicalities.” If ever there were a few brief verses that led to all manner of valueless exploration of technicalities, these would seem to be the foremost! Of all the things to quibble about, surely the matter of clearly identifying which of these women are the same and so on ranks high on the list of valueless enterprises. Yet, the debate is extensive.
It shows up particularly in speculations as to who this sister of Mary’s is that John mentions. Is she to be recognized as that Mary who is wife of Clopas? Or, is she perhaps Salome, whom Mark mentions by name? Those four brothers who came with Mary to bring Him out of the danger zone in Capernaum, were they truly brothers, or are they sons of this sister? Would that make James the Less, and maybe Simon the Zealot half-brothers of Jesus? The debate is certainly good for feeding curiosity, but for what else? Indeed, it seems that in some cases, the commitment to a particular view is so great as to lead the proponents of that view to great leaps of illogic. I have to say that as much as I have typically appreciated Fausset’s Encyclopedia, it seems to have really gone off into the weeds in covering the several Marys, and this bias continues in the coverage of James and Clopas. I can’t say this has completely devalued Fausset’s work in my mind. He still provides some excellent insights. But, on this particular topic? Very hard to find cause for credence.
Now, they are not alone in finding this matter of Mary’s sister difficult to sort out (or making it more so). McClintock and Strong reach the conclusion that the vague use of relationship is not just in calling these men brothers of Jesus, but also in calling this other woman sister of Mary, suggesting that they are sisters only inasmuch as they married two brothers. Thus, they would posit that it was Joseph and Alphaeus who were actually in sibling relationship (Alphaeus being universally identified as one and the same person as Clopas. There is apparently solid linguistic cause for this conclusion.) However, they are good enough to note that there are problems with such a theory. Most notable amongst them, to my eye, is the point that when we come to Acts 1:13-14, there is a list of the Apostles, including this James the Less, son of Alphaeus and son of this other Mary. Yet, this is followed by pointing that Mary, mother of Jesus is there along with His brothers. That would certainly seem to suggest that this James is not brother James.
Other theories posit Salome as sister of Mary, and it is commonly held that she is to be identified as mother of James and John. That would in turn make James and John cousins of Jesus. But, this, too, comes down to speculation more than anything. Each such theory may make it easier to understand certain events elsewhere amongst the Gospels. Yet, each theory also makes other events more difficult to explain. The sum of the matter seems to be this: We don’t know. We cannot know. Those who first read these gospels probably did know. But, apart from pointing out the role of these women as witnesses to the ministry and death of Christ, I am inclined to ask what point there is in sorting things out any more thoroughly than has been done by the authors. Did Mary have a sister named Mary? Who cares, honestly? Did they both have broods with similar names? Maybe. Maybe not. Does it change anything either way?
What I arrive at is that, while the translators must, for example, reach a conclusion as to where a comma ought to be inserted and where not, the attempts to arrive at a concrete, incontrovertible determination as to which of these women are the same as which others is beyond us. That said, when some of the more relaxed translations seek to make a certain perspective seem so authoritative, they do us a disservice. Better to leave the ambiguity and pique some curiosity than to present as fact what is merely supposition.
That same applies, to a lesser extent to how James’ odd identifier is to be taken here. The NCV goes so far as to state “(James was her youngest son.)” Can we really state so conclusively that this was the cause for him being called ‘the Less’? Would it not be at least equally likely that the appellative was given to distinguish him from James, son of Zebedee, the more well-known? Could it not just as easily be that it had nothing at all to do with age, or even fame, such as it was? Perhaps he was merely shorter than either that other James, or his brother. Again, the evidence is insufficient to be so firm in our conclusions, indeed the evidence is hardly sufficient to even propose theories!
As to James, I noted earlier that there is some question as to his relationship to Jesus. Is this James the Less also James, brother of Jesus? Or, is he cousin to Jesus? Again, theories abound, but facts are few. What can be reasonably surmised is that the James who, together with John and Peter held the leadership role in the Jerusalem church was less likely to be a brother than an apostle. Early on, of course, the James we see is clearly the son of Zebedee. But, after his death, it would seem there remains a James in charge still in Jerusalem. His role would only grow as Peter and John went further afield. Is this, then, James the Less? It is reasonable to suppose so. Fausset’s certainly advocates this view. That said, I have to also accept that a brother of Jesus, having clearly established faith in the Christ, would also be likely to find himself vested with a certain inherent authority by those in the church. Yet, the established order we see in the New Testament sets the apostles at the head of the hierarchy, so yes, if there remained an Apostle James in the city we can expect that it was that James who headed the church.
There are some things that can be said about this group of women, and about those who are named amongst their numbers. Some of them, at least, were sufficiently well to do that they could not only accompany this ministry as it traveled Israel, but could even contribute to it, providing for the necessaries of life. Others are more likely to have had nothing to leave behind. I think particularly of Mary, mother of Jesus, her husband dead and her eldest the very one they are all following. Where else was she to be? In the social order of that time, He would be her primary support, so she would almost have to have been living on ministry proceeds as well.
Mary Magdalene? Hard to say. She is numbered with those who were providing from their substance, and it’s not unreasonable to suppose that she is in that number. Our first reaction to her has to do with the common misconception that she was a prostitute, but that is a false connection. Mrs. Zebedee? Well, her husband had a fishing fleet to attend to, but her boys were here and he could fend for himself well enough.
What is, I think, more telling is the statement that these women had been ministering to Jesus throughout most of His Galilean ministry, and stuck with Him right on through to this bitter end. Considering that choice of words, ministering, we are considering the basis for our modern concept of the deacon, diakoneo. Every time we go to a restaurant, we encounter a diakoneo. They take our orders, bring food and drink. We think of them as waiters. In the church, we generally have a somewhat higher conception of the role of deacon, but this is still at its base. From Acts we know that the first deacons were indeed appointed for the purpose of food distribution, and to free up the Apostles for more spiritual matters of prayer and teaching.
But, the role expands as does the definition. I was particularly taken with this point made by Zhodiates. “When diakoneo is used then helping someone directly is involved.” In other words, it’s not just the fact of working, nor even the nature of the work being done that distinguishes the service rendered by those who minister. It’s the goal and purpose of that work. They work with the direct intention of helping someone. They are seeing to another’s needs. It may require time. It may require finances. It may require just about anything, but in that it attends to another’s needs, it ministers. In that it requires us to focus on things beyond ourselves, to give of our own to assist another, it has that element of sacrifice to it. In that it helps that other, it expresses that same compassion that we have from our Lord and Savior.
With all that in mind, think once more of those women who followed Jesus. What they are doing here in these final moments is entirely of a piece with what they have been doing all along. They are ministering to the needs of the Savior. What comfort must He have drawn from their visible presence with Him! No, they could not ease His pain. No, they could not do the least thing about the sentence that was being carried out. They could not even do anything about the abuse that these crowds were heaping upon Him. But, they could remain true to Him. They could stand firm in their faith. They could inform Him by their presence that they had not forgotten His deeds, were not in the least moved by the arguments of the Pharisees, that His ministry had not been in vain.
And do not miss that to stand as they did, here in the very midst of His enemies was already an act of courage that far outstripped what we see of the Apostles during these closing moments. I cannot note that without also noting the honesty and humility of those same Apostles in that they neither hide their own dismay and disillusionment as Jesus was arrested, tried and executed, nor do they seek to diminish the countervailing example of these women. They praise what is praiseworthy, and they leave it clearly shown that they are men such as ourselves. Apostles and women both were chosen and therefore special, not special and therefore chosen.
This is something the mother of Jesus certainly understood. This is not to say she did not struggle with understanding from time to time. I’m sure she did, as would we all. But, at base, her response to news of being chosen to bear the Son of God demonstrates her recognition that she had not earned this starring role, but had been chosen for it nonetheless. There is more to this than simply the humility of self-assessment.
There is a deeper lesson we ought to draw from her example. To be sure, Mary’s blessing lay not in having conceived the Christ, but rather her blessing is that she believed the Christ. Having spent a little time looking at the gifts of the Spirit recently, it strikes me that this is much the same point Paul makes in regard to those gifts. They are not the blessing. Belief is the blessing. Faith, hope and love persist. They are those works which will not be burned up by the fires of judgment. All this other stuff? It’s impressive, yes, and even beneficial. But, it all has that potential to prove no more than a distraction. The most consistent wielder of these gifts may yet come before our Lord in that last day and hear, “I don’t know you.”
But, let us apply that to things less spectacular. Let us apply this same standard to the more mundane aspects of ministering, whether it be unto the Lord or unto His people, which are really but two aspects of the same thing. What motivates you to serve? What motivates you when you are maybe plowing the driveway, or picking up some trash left in the sanctuary? What motivates you to show up every Tuesday night? No, I don’t plow the driveway, but the questions may as well be asked of myself. Why do I do worship? Why do I keep going with teaching every Sunday after church? Why, for that matter, am I here this morning, looking at the message of these verses?
If it is just the pursuit of a necessary task, just drudge work or what have you, then it is not just valueless, it is downright deadly to the soul! Honestly, there are weeks when going off for Tuesday night prayer just really isn’t something I feel like doing. And it seems like those are the weeks (or used to be) when I would find myself all but required to go. Now it seems I have become leader by default and every week has that sense of necessity. I have to do it because there’s nobody else left to lead the effort. But, if there is no love in that leading, then I am just blowing wind and seeding my own destruction.
If study has become no more than habit, if church has reduced to appearances, then all the best deeds I might muster up, however impressive, however apparently Spirit-empowered, are set to naught. If I think they are expressions of my own prowess, they are set against me! And, yes, these are things I suffer from regularly. It’s so easy to become impressed with myself. But, it’s a trap for fools.
I am put to mind of the passage in Mark 9 that we studied in Sunday School this last week, and what a gut check that was! Why did the Apostles have no success casting the demon out of that man’s son? Because they’d fallen into thinking it was their own effort, their own specialness, that was going to do the trick. “These kind come out only by prayer.” What kind? Well, pretty much all of them! Prayer reminds us not only of who God Is, but also of who we are. What they learned about ministering I must relearn, it seems, every week! Without prayer, teaching is vanity. Without prayer, study is vanity. Without prayer, nothing that I consider ministry ministers to anybody. Without prayer, I cannot even maintain that compassion, that love that God seeks to express through my life.
The ISBE offers this summation of those women we have pointed out to us on this occasion. “The action of these women of whom Mary [Magdalene] was one, in serving their Master’s need while in life, and in administering the last rites to His body in death, is characteristic of woman at her best.” What is this characteristic? It’s compassion! It’s the very sort of active love that we are discussing! It is the expression of God’s image, the paying forward, if I use the current catch-phrase, of God’s glorious generosity towards us in a generous love towards others around us.
Listen! Jesus, ever the Leader by example, shows us the extent of compassion even in this very scene! There He is, in physical and spiritual agony. He is beaten, bleeding, dying more slowly than might be preferred. He is suffering loss of communion with Father and Spirit, a thing He has never known before, nor ever will again. The darkness in the heavens is as nothing to the darkness of soul within Him. And yet, seeing His mother there on the sidelines, His concern is not for Himself. He does not reach out looking to be somehow comforted by her sorrow. No! He ministers! He performs this last active work of love in seeing to it that her needs are met. He sets her under the care of that disciple He is most certain will take His dying command to heart. “There is your mother!” Do your duty by her. And, he did, as Jesus knew he would.
But, the lesson for me in this is the selfless, outward compassion that is modeled. It can be noted, as something of an aside, that His care for Mary on this occasion (of all occasions!) is pretty clear evidence to counter the theory that He had effectively denounced all familial obligations in preference for His ministry. Some read the events of Matthew 12:47 as indicating just such a disassociation from family responsibility. I may very well have done so when I was looking at that section. But, that’s wrong! No, as one of the articles pointed out, it should be unthinkable that Jesus would be belittling the very family connections He was simultaneously setting forth as the model for Christian community! Mother and brother and sister and particularly Father, are everywhere set forward in Scripture as relationships to be cherished and protected. How then, could we think our Leader, He Who ever leads by example, would be giving us an example of gross negligence in this regard?
Rather, even in these dying moments, our Leader by example provides an example of the compassion we are to not only experience from His hands, but also to express in our own actions. One might forgive a man in the midst of being executed by slow torture for being a bit self-centered. But, this is not how we find Jesus. He is still entirely focused on the needs of those around Him. He is still keenly aware of those responsibilities which have devolved to Him. On a human level, at least, the care of His mother was nothing He chose. It was not a duty He had volunteered for. It was simply a fact of life. Joseph was gone, and He was clearly the eldest child. Whether by law or by custom stronger than law, her care was His concern.
For all that He was about doing His Father’s business, that business most assuredly did not include permission to set aside the commandments. Think about it! We have in those most succinctly stated commandments of God’s Law the demand to honor our parents. It is upheld as the first such command to come with attached promise. Jesus, we are taught, upheld the Law perfectly. Indeed, He had even used that very command in demonstrating to what degree the Pharisees had corrupted the Law by their traditions. Is it even thinkable that He would have done this if He Himself was neglecting that specific requirement?
Above and beyond this, one might suppose that the dividing line of death might well mark the point at which this Law is no longer binding upon Him. After all, how can a dead man be held accountable for the Law of the living? But, He sees farther. He sees that the needs of His mother will outlive Him, as concerns this earthly existence, and so, He takes steps to see to her care in His absence. What moves Him to do so? It is no longer the Law, certainly not Law alone. To my thinking, it was never Law alone, for an obedience that was solely a matter of being careful to obey the Law might well be an obedience done out of fear, and that is insufficient. Brittle observance of the rules is not what God is after. Rather, it is the matter of the heart.
I go back again to Paul’s description from 1Corinthians 13. If I have not love, everything else, the best of obedience, the most flashy of charismatic exercises, the most eloquent speech, it’s all utterly worthless. If I have converted entire populations, but do so only out of a sense of duty and not out of love for them, there is absolutely no value to it. Oh, they may benefit. But, to the one whose Christian duty is nothing more than duty? Don’t think to be commended for your efforts when you come to heaven!
Jesus, here on the cross, is not just doing His duty. That is true of His careful arrangement for His mother’s care. It is also true of His being there in the first place. Yes, there is a primary motive to be found in doing the Father’s will, and that is absolutely commendable. But, behind the motive lies motivation. Why is He moved to do the Father’s will? Is it for fear of the consequences of failure? No. Is it because this is what’s expected of Him, and like it or not, He feels trapped by circumstance and must comply? No. Did He come down here to suffer such humiliation, frustration and torment for no further reason than that Father said to do so? No. John has summed it up as regards the Father: This is love: that He loved us and sent His Son the propitiation for our sins (1Jn 4:10). Or, that most known of passages, “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life” (Jn 3:16). But, it was not Father alone whose love was so great. The Son, too, loved to so great an extent that He was willing to be sent, even desired to be sent knowing full well what was entailed.
If anybody knew what the propitiation for the sins of all mankind would require, it was Him! But, He was willingly obedient. He wanted to be obedient, wanted to satisfy every requirement to be that propitiation for you and for me. Why? Because He loves us! He has compassion for us. I love that which we read last night from Hebrews 2:17-18. He had to be made like us in all things so as to become a merciful and faithful high priest of God, so as to make propitiation for the sins of the people. He was tempted in what He suffered, so He is able to aid those who are tempted. This wasn’t just some holiday from heaven, and it wasn’t just a job He was required to do. It was the very expression of compassion.
For His disciples, for us, that life of compassion is our living model. We are called to care, and not just to care as an exercise in empathy, but to care enough to act. Why else the evangelistic effort? If we were to evangelize from a motivation that only took into account the command to do so, but without ‘a heart for the lost’, what result could we expect? If there were fruit of such a ‘ministry’ it could only be by the grace of God out of His compassion for those lost souls. But, if we have a heart after God, if we are there because like Him, we have compassion on those we try to reach? Listen! The hardest of souls can yet recognize the difference between dutiful obedience and real concern. Which would you be more inclined to respond to? And why would you suppose it different for others?
We must know compassion, we who claim to serve and love this God. We are made in His image and yet, I think particular those of us who are of the male image have so much trouble with this compassion thing. It’s to feminine. We expect it from the women, what with their mothering instincts and all. But, God expects it from us all. In Christ there is neither male nor female. Yes, I understand that I am lifting that point out of any context. But, it applies. As concerns our motivation, as concerns our true and very real attitudes of heart, compassion is to be our rule. We are not to be blinded by compassion. That isn’t the point at all, any more than our faith is expected to be a blind faith. No! But, a heartless, compassionless religion has nothing to do with this God Who came to rescue us. It is in no way representative of Him. He loved and therefore acted. He did not act and hope that maybe someday He could muster up some love for us. We, too, are called to love. I don’t know. Maybe we have to work at it, although I’m not clear how one works his way to loving another. Love is work, to be sure, but it cannot be worked up. That sort of worked up love is cheap emotionalism, no more real than the emotions of an actor on the screen. This love is deeper. This compassion is deeper.
I arrive at what should really be an obvious conclusion. This love, this compassion cannot be our reality except by God’s grace. It’s not even a guaranteed response to recognizing the love He has shown us. It requires His touch upon our hearts, His work within our soul, to bring such love and compassion to blossom. It requires His Holy Spirit, watering the grounds of His temple within us to make that love and compassion grow. For our part, there is prayer; prayer that we might know that very fruit, the chiefest of the gifts of the Spirit, growing and ripening within us, and that we might learn how not to cause that fruit to wither on the vine.
Jesus saves, it is true. Jesus saves, but greater still, Jesus loves.
Lord, let Your love abide in me, not as something to be horded and savored for personal pleasure, but as a gift to pour out. I know Your love abides upon me. I have known Your call, welcomed Your presence, felt Your touch. But, so often it feels to me as though I have stopped there. I like the taste of Your love, but having had benefit of it, I act as though this is sufficient. Where is that love that should be driving me to act on Your behalf? Where is that love for those around me who do not know You? When will this heart begin to beat with Your heart? I cannot make it so. It is not in me to do so. But, I can come to You, and this I do, asking Holy God of All, that You would create in me a heart after Your own, even if that means a heart that is forever breaking. I am Yours, of this I have no doubt. I am Yours, but I have so far to go to arrive at being an obedient and honorable son. Come will and work in me, oh God.